Full of Hate and Ready to Date (Blog) » Robby http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog How to attract, seduce, and date beautiful women without feeling ignored, rejected, or angry. Wed, 08 Sep 2010 13:19:03 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 1 Week Book Sale! http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/1-week-book-sale/ http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/1-week-book-sale/#comments Thu, 26 Aug 2010 13:34:35 +0000 Robby http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/?p=2147 .
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MY STORY

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In 2003 I was divorced, depressed, and single.

I was fat and newly divorced.

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I loved women (still do) but it seemed that the more I tried to meet and impress them the more frustrated and rejected I became. At 28 I had entered the very different world of dating with absolutely no skills at socializing, meeting or attracting women. I didn’t even know that you could learn how to attract women!

My first instinct was to lose weight and to get fit. I updated my wardrobe, diet, and training. I really turned my health around and ended up looking my best!

I lost weight and got fit.

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After feeling pretty good about my appearance my confidence returned and I started talking to girls again.

And guess what happened? I had spent so much time trying to impress my ex wife I had zero skills at actually attracting women.

I could meet women easily ...

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What happened next really confused and frustrated me. I could meet women without much problem (because I was cute and nice) but I could not keep a girl to save my life.

Meeting women was easy but turning one of them into my girlfriend was an impossibility.

... in the end I was always alone.

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Every time I meet a girl I liked she’d end up walking away from me after just a few dates.

What was I doing wrong!?

I wasn’t creating attraction.

Instead I was being super nice, which builds rapport and creates good friends, but that only leads to the “Friend’s Zone.”

Brutal.

So I sulked for about a year before I got my act together.

Then I started reading.

I started reading everything I could on dating, pickup, attraction and seduction. I became hungry for knowledge, and VERY excited to learn that some skills CAN be learned!

Just some of the books I read.

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I started to learn from my stupid mistakes.

I also started to notice something I’ve since coined as the “IGNORE and SCORE” method of attraction and dating. I started to notice the way some guys would behave around really hot girls. And it was completely different than how I was acting.

I paid attention, applied my knowledge, and I started dating again.

I immediately found success!

I met many great women!

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I also discovered that strong Inner Game manifests strong Outer Game and so I was able to build my social circle of friends as well.

And for 6 years I met hundreds of amazing women. I raised my standards, improved my self-esteem, rebuilt my personal boundaries and expectations, and I really raised the bar for the type of women I wanted to ultimately end up with.

My socials skills also helped keep old friends and make new ones!

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Something else happened.

I got fat and lazy and gained about 30 lbs.

But since my mindsets were now powerful and attractive it didn’t slow down my dating. At all!

Gaining weight never slowed me down.

Gaining weight never slowed me down.

Gaining weight never slowed me down.
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Try to understand something… my goal was never to go out and get laid (although I did) and my goal was never to get any girl I met (although I always got the girls I really wanted) because ultimately I was looking for real love from just one amazing woman.

Today I’m living comfortably as a computer geek, while living with my beautiful girlfriend.

I eat too much ...

I play games like a geek ...

... and this is my girlfriend.
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I’m over weight, smart, and lovable.

Over the last 6 years I’ve dated the most beautiful women I ever thought possible, I’ve read more books on dating and pickup than most, and I’ve dated hundreds of other women in my endless pursuit of learning about love, sex, and relationships.

Me writing at Mom's.

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I’ve spent the last few years gathering my thoughts on Dating Success, Inner GameTactics, and Pickup Techniques and I’ve compiled them into this philosophy called IGNORE and SCORE.

I have interviewed beautiful women.

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IGNORE and SCORE is my way of proving that YOU can do the same: you can quickly learn the foundations of what makes women “turned on” and what “pushes them away.”

If I can save just ONE MAN (you) from the embarrassment of rejection by teaching him (you) how to avoiding typical dating mistakes then this eBook will have been well worth all the hours I’ve spent writing it!

Buy it, read it, and if it doesn’t help you at all I’ll give you a 100% refund, no questions asked. Seriously.

Did I mention this is my girlfriend?

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Here are some examples of what you’ll learn:

  • What naturally creates attraction within a woman and one simple mindset you should always have that will naturally make you stand out from most other men.
  • You’ll realize what 3 aspects of your appearance play the biggest role in getting her attention – and it’s not what you think. – pg. 18
  • The Do’s and Don’ts of sexual escalation. – pg. 86, 87
  • Why a woman resists a guy even when she’s really into him, and how to use her resistance as an advantage to your dating success. – pg. 51
  • I take an entire chapter to explain the mindset of rejection and how to prevent it’s damaging effects on your dating life. – Chapter “Ignore Rejection”
  • What if confidence wasn’t real? In chapter “Score Confidence” I explain some new mindsets about our insecurities and how trying to “build” confidence is a waste of time. I then explain 3 simple steps to help remind you of your own deeply innate self confidence. – pg. 22
  • Through out this eBook I explain the foundations of dating – “Attraction, Rapport, and Intimacy. I also explain how most men get these simple steps out of order only to automatically find themselves in “the friend’s zone.”
  • Women really do want to date a “nice guy” but they’re not naturally attracted to them. I’ll explain how you can still be that upstanding dude without scaring her away.
  • Understanding the difference between teasing and playful banter is the difference between making a girl laugh or making her slap you. I’ll explain that fine line and I’ll even give you some great banter lines that will guarantee she’ll take notice of you.
  • This eBook outlines old mindsets that may be unconsciously holding you back from greater success and I’ll provide you with new mindsets that will naturally improve your success with women.
  • Learn what a woman’s “bitch shield” is and how to properly ignore it so that you stand out from every other chump. – pg. 20
  • I teach you the power of this truth: her resistance isn’t her rejection. – pg. 54
  • The differences between a direct approach and an indirect approach and the proper way to use each one when first meeting a beautiful woman. – pg. 60
  • Discover why women simply don’t value a guy they can get easily, and how to become the playful guy women love to chase.– pg. 28
  • What stops most men from dating beautiful women? And it’s got nothing to do with a lack of fame, fortune, or genetics. – pg. 72
  • I explain the difference between being good looking and looking good. – pg. 18
  • 6 simple things you could say to subtly communicate your interest that invites her to become curious about you instead of bored with you. – pg. 76
  • How to easily and comfortably generate intimacy with her without embarrassing yourself and without making her feel you’re going too fast. – pg. 80
  • 8 ways you may unknowingly be giving away your power to her and why it will kill her attraction for you. – pg. 32
  • How a woman tests you and how to easily pass her tests.– pg. 57
  • You might be surprised at the way family and friends can actually hinder your dating life, and what you can do about it. – pg. 37
  • How the fear of approaching a woman can be used to actually make her more attracted to you. – pg. 40
  • How to tell if she’s really into you or not. – pg. 44
  • Questions you SHOULD be asking her that will naturally make her more curious about you. – pg. 30
  • 5 ways that rapport helps your dating success, and how to naturally build it. – pg. 44-47
  • 8 quick tips for telling a powerful story, which can create a great connection with a woman. – pg. 48
  • What most women fear and how to always project a fun and safe emotional environment while never seeming boring or dull.– pg. 50
  • How to tell a story that will convey your value without bragging. – pg. 48
  • 3 simple ways to remove a woman’s fears and resistance to your escalation. – pg. 51
  • A powerful way to instantly build her attraction and rapport that will make you seem irresistible and fun, which most men absolutely neglect! – pg. 53
  • How this one behavior will erode her attraction for you and can destroy your chance of a happy long-term relationship. – pg. 54
  • The 5 things a woman instantly assesses about you when she first see’s you, and how to make the most of your first impression. – pg. 18
  • 6 steps to help prevent yourself from being jealous. – pg. 54-55
  • 5 questions you should ask yourself to help you from unknowingly making the same dating mistakes over and over again.– pg. 38
  • 14 non-verbal ways she might indicator her interest in you, as well as 19 others you shouldn’t miss. – pg. 62
  • 15 easy ways that you can display your leadership qualities and why it matters. – pg. 33
  • Learn the importance of boundaries (hers and yours) so that you can safely escalate your physical touch from the very first date. – pg. 24-27
  • I explain the importance of banter with a woman as well as many fun examples that will make her crazy for you. – pg. 60-66
  • What is congruence and why does it matter? – pg. 66
  • What it means to be an attractive man and how to lead a life style that naturally brings you success. – pg. 70, 71
  • 11 behaviors you MUST stop doing that makes women want to avoid you..– pg. 41
  • How to tell when she’s ready to be seduced, and what most men do wrong when they first try to escalate the physical relationship with her. – pg. 41
  • I explain how you might be jumping through her hoops without even realizing it, and why doing this will only make her less interested in you. – pg. 28
  • This is something you might be doing that will destroy your chances of creating real intimacy with any women you date. – pg. 81
  • 5 things you should NEVER do when in bed with a woman! – pg. 82
  • Chapter “Score Sexual Intimacy” defines “sex,” and explains her sexual drives.
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For years I’ve enjoyed the endless variety of women that dating online offers and I’ve finally compiled my best dating tips and techniques into this one comprehensive guide.

In this additional eBook I’ve simplified 4 major Online Dating topics:

  • Your Profile (Attraction)
  • Choosing Her (Leading)
  • Connecting With Her (Rapport)
  • Meeting Her (Escalation)

Here’s what you’ll learn in this additional free eBook:

  • What makes a girl interested in you even though she has many other options? This ONE THING dictates how she acts and how she behaves! – pg. 64
  • 8 typical mistakes you should never make when first chatting with a girl online. – pg. 74
  • 5 easy to stop indicators she’s ready to meet you. – pg. 80
  • 10 ways to either make or break your profile description – pg. 20
  • I’ve taken 10 men’s online dating profiles and broken down the good and the bad aspects of each one to help teach you the EXACT things you should include or exclude that will automatically attract the women who read it.
  • How mindsets rule our decision-making, and how they affect the behaviors we exhibit for women to interpret while deciding to chat with us or not. – pg. 7
  • Where most men go wrong when they think about romance, connection and love and how it can ruin your chance at connecting with her. – pg. 81
  • Learn which types of photos make women click your profile. (I show over 60 examples of good and bad profile photos.) – pg. 17, 18, 19
  • I explain 9 things you need to understand when deciding what to say to her for the very first time, and how it will dramatically improve her response to you. – pg. 45, 46
  • I give you dramatic examples of the types of emails other men will be sending her, so that you can avoid sounding like “just the next creep.” – pg. 47
  • Learn how to be direct in such a way that she desires more of you. – pg. 49
  • I’ll give you 7 amazing openers that you can use anytime that I’ve used successfully to meet many amazing women online. – pg. 51
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I convinced Mike (www.MikeTheMasterDater.com) to offer half of his ebook for free for people that buy Ignore And Score! This is really a killer deal, his book is totally awesome and even I learned stuff from it. Not kidding, this guy has mastered Texting, Sexting, and everything to do with Cell Phone Game! This book is amazing and you will thank me for including it.

The book is called TEXTAPPEAL and sells on his website for $13.95 but you get HALF of it for FREE when you buy Ignore and Score!

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HOW MUCH?

What does it cost to fearlessly approach women for years in an effort to dissect what REALLY makes them turned on? It took me years and years so I guess it cost me hundreds of dates, dinners, coffee’s, and many many human hours of introspection, contemplation and interpretation.

I also read the endless array of online dating books from the amazingly popular pickup artists and dating gurus. My insights are thanks to them and their products.

How much time and energy would you be willing to exhaust while attempting to figure out exactly what it is that makes a woman desperately seek your attention and approval?

How much time would it take for you to replicate my endless hard work?

I’ve put in the years trying to figure out the core foundations of attraction, rapport and intimacy and the last thing I want is to see any more of my fellow brothers helplessly struggling where I once did. I also feel poorly for the women out there who are frustrated with those men who simply “don’t get it.”

Don’t believe me? Ask the nearest woman what it’s like to deal with men who are lost and confused. You’ll see that most women are as sexually frustrated as most men.

“So I’ve compiled my best experiences, my best pickup lines,
and my best mindsets for attracting women into this eBook.”

What do I ask for in return for this book of knowledge?

At first I wasn’t sure.

At first I was going to give it away for free, but do you know what I came to discover? Nothing given away free seems to have any value to those who receive it. Most people simply won’t read a book that’s free. It’s really bizarre. But when we’re forced to hand over our money we suddenly become more invested… we put some skin in the game.

So in an effort to help you out I’ve priced my eBook at $27

Basically, when you download my eBook you’re saying, “Hey Rob, thanks for the endless work you’ve put into helping me out with women… go out and have dinner and a drink on me!”

To which I say, “Hey, thanks man!” Super High-Five.

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When you click on the button below, you’ll be taken to a secure order page where you can download the book right now.

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If, after you’ve read the book you decide that it’s not for you… or you didn’t find any useful information in it for your situation, simply reply to your confirmation email with the word “cancel” in the subject line and I’ll refund your entire payment.

I truly want to help you meet and date more great women. The last thing I want to do is ask you to pay for advice that isn’t useful to you.

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SAMPLES

SCORE CONFIDENCE – IGNORE & SCORE, Page 23.
SEDUCTION – IGNORE & SCORE, Page 11.
SCORE INDICATORS OF INTERST – IGNORE & SCORE, Page 59.
BE CHOOSY – MINDSETS FOR DATING ONLINE, Page 29.
WHAT IS LEADING? – IGNORE & SCORE, Page 33.

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NOW WHAT?

At the bottom of this page you’ll click on the “Download Now” button, which will take you to my secure Pay Pal checkout page. This eBook (Ignore and Score) costs just $27, and comes with my other eBook (Mindsets for Dating, Online) absolutely free!

From there you’ll be able to instantly download and begin reading all of my very best tips and techniques for meeting and dating beautiful women. You don’t even need to read this eBook from cover to cover, simply pick and choose the sections that stand out most to you.

Please email me personally if you have any questions: EMAIL ME

I wish you new and continued success with women,

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~ Robert Belland

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Question:

Help, I still love my ex?

My EX dumped me last sunday, and I still love him!

He dumped me over the phone and said we are more friends than a couple. He has later said its because of the distance and age gap (im 18 and he is 27.)

I cant get over him. I have tried and tried but I cant, everyone I have spoken to have said not to let him win and to be strong but i can’t. I just want to be cuddled up with him. Over christmas he was talking about getting married and I don’t know why he has done this too me.

I have even thought about hurting myself to get away from it.

Everything reminds me of him. I cry myself to sleep every night. I have tried to get out and look for someone else but every time I lay in bed I just think of him. Everyone has said he is not good enough for me but I loved him.

What can I do to help myself?

Don't trust your feelings... use your head!

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Answer:

Think of it like this. I’m a big fat guy. I know that eating chocolate cake is not good for my well being. I WANT to eat that cake. I desire it. I LOVE IT!

But I choose to not eat it. Why? Because I love myself enough to know what’s good for me.

Instead I choose something else that tastes good, and which also enriches my life with energy, power, strength, and longevity.

You are the fat kid who wants cake.

You seem confused between loving him and being with him.

It’s okay to love him, but that is NOT a reason to be with him. Your love for him is natural, and will not suddenly fade just because you broke up last week. It takes time to heal.

As I lose weight my desire for chocolate cake fades, and my appreciation for myself grows. This is what will happen for you as well.

Of course you can’t realize this right now because all you see and feel is hurt. It’s almost impossible for you to imagine what it’ll feel like when you’re strong and happy. What you feel in this moment is what’s painting all of your thoughts. It’s like you’re drunk and you’re trying to do hard math… almost impossible under the weight of your current emotions.

Just have some awareness of your thoughts because if you sit at home thinking about him it’ll only hurt you more.

Instead you need to accept the breakup, appreciate the time you had together, and allow yourself the room to grow and mature and heal.

Thinking about him is like thinking about that chocolate cake when you can’t have it. STOP IT.

Remember: There’s nothing as good at helping you forget an ex as meeting someone new worth getting to know.

Love yourself until you meet someone new worth sharing your time with.
~ Robby

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Q: I am 19 and I have never kissed a girl before.

Honestly I feel embarrassing that I never kissed before. When it comes to the end of a date I don’t have enough courage to kiss her.

I have a friend who is 18. She is my high school friend (I would say buddy). We have known each other for 4 years. She was my first crash but we never end up dating.

Shy? Yes :)

Now in college we met once again and I am about to ask her out.

However, I am scared because of the above reason.

Now I would honestly kiss any girl but her. Maybe because I am in love? Maybe…

I don’t know what to say or to ask… I just wrote my problem.

Most girls are more shy then us, so don't sweat it!

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A: I feel your pain. Luckily I’ve managed to discover the secret to “being shy” as well as the secret to “the first kiss.”

SHYNESS

Shyness is actually an artifact of your ego trying to defend it’s self against possible criticism or the disapproval of others. Sounds strange doesn’t it?

Unfortunately the ego will do many things to protect it’s self, including stopping you from living a healthy positive life! Why people don’t speak up, or speak their mind, is because they ultimately  fear that they’ll be discovered as weak or inferior – all the while secretly hoping to BE superior.

I learned this from Eckhart Tolle – Read This.

But when you learn to base your self-esteem upon your own voice, and not the opinions of others, you’ll learn that your ego will starve and fade, and your self-esteem will sky rocket. For more info on this process read anything by Don Ruiz.

In any case, forget your ego, and start testing your insecurities…

I would suggest you start learning to socialize with everyone you meet.

Talk to the old guy behind you in the grocery line, or the super hot waitress who takes your order.

Learn to flirt.

Talk, talk, talk, talk, talk, talk.

Get out and be SOCIAL!

This is how you will quickly learn that nothing bad will ever happen to you even when others don’t agree with what you have to say. This is HUGE when it comes to meeting and attracting women.


THE FIRST KISS

1) Realize that all women, even if they’re not interested in you, WANT you to at least try. I’ve heard this time and time again from many women. She wants to at least feel she’s worthy of your attempt. So just do it.

Sometimes you just have to go for it.

2) Realize that even if she gives you her cheek, that doesn’t mean anything bad. It simply means “not yet.” You DON’T start back at square one, so nothing is lost. This will never cause her to not call you again. If she doesn’t call you again it’s because she already wasn’t going to – not because you tried to kiss her.

3) Help her get used to your touch. Help her out of the car by the hand, help her cross a busy restaurant by the hand, or even give her a sensual fake palm reading – touch, touch, touch. Don’t grope, keep it clean. Maybe whisper a secret in her ear, softly. It’ll give her goose bumps.

Help her to get comfortable with your touch.

4) Finally, don’t wait till the end of the date to kiss her - do it Mid-Date. When you kiss her, perhaps right after she’s made you laugh, you’ll both feel better. The tension will be gone, and the rest of the date will be WAY smoother.

I hope this helps,

~ Robby

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