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		<title>Question: Should I tell her how I feel?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Jul 2010 14:10:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Robby</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Open up to her so that she'll NEVER feel attraction for you again. Or, instead, shut the f*ck up!]]></description>
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<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #990000;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: 36px; color: #990000;">Q: </span><strong>I&#8217;ve known this girl for about 4 months now. </strong></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #990000;">I asked her out after about a month of knowing her (didn&#8217;t really know her THAT well at the time) and she said she just wanted to be friends. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #990000;">We slowly hung out less after that for about a month but over the last month we&#8217;ve basically been inseparable. We have dinner together a lot and we spend a lot of time together even if it&#8217;s just doing nothing. I haven&#8217;t gone a day without seeing her for so long I can&#8217;t remember. We spend more time together than my friends spend with their steady girl friends.</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #990000;"><a href="http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/just-friends2.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-1957" title="just-friends" src="http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/just-friends2.jpg" alt="" width="600" height="650" /></a></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #990000;">We have these awesome conversations when we&#8217;re together at dinner (3 hours+) and it seems like we&#8217;re never short of conversation. Lately the conversations have gotten a lot deeper. We&#8217;ve talked about past relationships, the future, what we&#8217;re looking for in a bf/gf, etc. I feel an awesome connection with this girl. It&#8217;s like we just get each other. I don&#8217;t feel like there&#8217;s any pressure to impress. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #990000;">Everything is just comfortable and easy. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #990000;">I want to tell her that I really like her but I&#8217;m worried about losing what&#8217;s become a really great friend at the same time. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #990000;"><strong>Should I just tell or should I let things play out?</strong> I&#8217;ve already put myself out there once so I don&#8217;t know if I should do it again or not. But now we have this great connection that wasn&#8217;t there the first time. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #990000;">I can&#8217;t stop thinking about her and I feel like not telling her is driving me crazy. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #990000;">What should I do?</span></p>
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<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #990000;"> </span></p>
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<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;"><span style="font-size: 36px;"><span style="color: #000080;">A: </span></span><strong><span style="color: #000080;">Holy crap don&#8217;t be stupid!</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;"><span style="color: #000080;">NOOOOOOOOOO!</span></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #000080;">Is it too late? Did you scare the girl away yet? I hope there&#8217;s time to save this disaster&#8230;</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #000080;"> </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #000080;">First, learn something about ATTRACTION ( </span><a href="http://www.girlsaskguys.com/articles/Flirting/How-to-Create-Attraction-with-a-Woman.html"><span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #000080;">link</span></span></a><span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #000080;"> )</span></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #000080;">Women respond to who you&#8217;re BEING, not what you&#8217;re saying. So stop thinking, and start feeling.</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #000080;">I understand what&#8217;s happening&#8230; you&#8217;re feeling insecure, and nervous, and tense. This is because you THINK she feels the same way, and you THINK that talking about things will ease the tension. The problem is that TENSION is ATTRACTION. As soon as you try using LOGIC with her you&#8217;ll f*** it all up.</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #000080;">She doesn&#8217;t care what you THINK. She only cares what she FEELS.</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #000080;">Pay attention and read the above line again, because this is no joke.</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #000080;">When it comes to &#8220;getting the girl&#8221; it&#8217;s ALL about how she FEELS. If you screw things up with TALKING she&#8217;ll stop feeling uncertain and attracted, and she&#8217;ll start feeling bored and unattracted.</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #000080;">If you spill your guts she&#8217;ll feel that you&#8217;re not the kind of man she can lean up simply because you&#8217;re not even man enough to handle a little uncertainty.</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #000080;">I speak from experience. I&#8217;ve made that mistake. It&#8217;s what lame guys do to feel better. Don&#8217;t do it.</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #000080;">Instead read this and follow my advice carefully &#8211; </span><a href="http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/from-relating-to-dating-how-to-seduce-her-from-friend-to-lover-in-5-steps-or-less/"><span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #000080;">link</span></span></a><span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #000080;"> </span></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #000080;">It&#8217;s not about talking with her, it&#8217;s about BEING with her. Take the actions I describe in my above link and she&#8217;ll either crumble at your feet, or become even closer friends with you.</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #000080;">Best of luck man!</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #000080;">~ Robby</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">Today&#8217;s AWESOME thumbnail is by this <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/floriopics/4750170673/" target="_blank">AWESOME photographer.</a></span></p>
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		<title>You Got Her Number, but Her Body Language Said No.</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Jul 2010 12:48:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kim</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA["We set up a first date, but she called to tell me something came up and she hasn’t called me back since!"]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em><span style="color: #888888;">Today&#8217;s Guest Guru is Kim  from the famous <a href="http://pickuppodcast.com/author/kim/" target="_blank">PickupPodcast.com</a>. I&#8217;ve really enjoyed Kim&#8217;s insights over there and I&#8217;m super happy she&#8217;s going to share some of her insights with us!</span></em></p>
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<h2>The Fake – I mean, the Flake.</h2>
<p>It’s the dreaded “flake” or “flake-out.” It happens to many folks, enough that we know the end of the story pretty much from the start. She gives you her number, but then doesn’t answer your call, or maybe you do get a date set up, but then she cancels at the last minute.  “She gave me her number,” he says. “We were at the club, we chatted for a moment while we were each getting drinks, and it seemed like she was into me. We set up a first date, but she called to tell me something came up and she hasn’t called me back since!”</p>
<p>When I hear stories like this, I know there’s more to it than that. Human interaction is rarely that simple.</p>
<p>So it’s time to ask some questions:</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em><strong>What did you talk about?</strong></em></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em><strong> </strong></em>“Oh, you know – the usual. How are you, who are you here with, having fun yet…that kind of stuff.”</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em><strong>What did she do that made you feel that she was interested in you?</strong></em></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em><strong> </strong></em>“Well, we were shoulder to shoulder at the bar and she smiled while we were chatting and she tucked her hair behind her ear as she was leaving with her drink.”</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em><strong>How did you get her number?</strong></em></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em><strong> </strong></em>“Her drink came, so I handed her my phone and told her we shouldn’t lose touch, that we should go out sometime.”</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em><strong>What did you do after you got the number?</strong></em></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em><strong> </strong></em>“Well, her drink was there and she’d turned around, so I told her to have a good night and I’d call her.”</p>
<p>Nothing here is unusual, nor is anything intrinsically wrong. Was it the most wild, amazing introduction?</p>
<p>No, but it doesn’t necessarily have to be.</p>
<p>Was she as attracted to him as he thought? Everyone’s shoulders touch at the bar, she might be a smiley person in general, and her hair might have been in her eyes. She might very well have been attracted to him, or she might not have.</p>
<p>So why did she give him her number, agree to a date and then cancel?</p>
<h2>Body language?</h2>
<p>The key to figuring out what might have happened in this interaction is body language, which he didn’t mention at all in his story. Without it, we have less than half of the information we need to make an educated guess as to what led to her cancelling their date. To figure this out, we need to look at the body language of both people. Hers will tell us how she’s responding to him. His will show us how he feels about himself.</p>
<div id="attachment_1947" class="wp-caption alignnone" style="width: 498px"><a href="http://burkecleland.com/?p=174"><img class="size-full wp-image-1947" title="postures" src="http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/postures.jpg" alt="" width="488" height="350" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Have some awareness of your posture.</p></div>
<p>During the interaction at the bar, she smiled and touched her hair. Most women do both of these things most of the time. Neither is a clear indication of interest. What would show interest is how her body is aligned toward his, and whether her posture is open or closed. If her arms or shoulders are in front of her in a protective, space-creating way, it doesn’t matter what she’s saying.</p>
<h2>She’s not comfortable.</h2>
<p>If she starts making attempts to turn away from him from the moment he says hello, or keeps her head turned away from him while he’s talking, she’s probably not interested no matter what she’s actually saying. However, if she was turned toward him, looking up at him and smiling with her arms as loose as they could be in the bar, maybe even arching her back as she spoke to him, perhaps a hand cocked on her hip, she’s likely legitimately interested.</p>
<div id="attachment_1948" class="wp-caption alignnone" style="width: 510px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1948" title="shes-uncomfortable" src="http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/shes-uncomfortable.jpg" alt="" width="500" height="346" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Pay attention to her body language... is she comfortable?</p></div>
<p>If he went through this interaction with his shoulders sagging, his empty beer bottle held protectively in front of him, never even shaking her hand or touching her arm, she won’t believe he’s actually interested in her. Her immediate feeling will likely be that he’s just talking to any girl who comes into his vicinity, so she’s nothing special to him.</p>
<p>She might still give him her number when he asks because for whatever reason, she doesn’t know how to say no, but she won’t trust it. Even if she’s attracted to him, if his body language makes her feel as though she’s not sure if he’s into her, she’ll begin to lose that initial attraction. He said he was interested by asking for her number, but his body language made her feel that he wasn’t, so even if she was into him at first, by the time the day of the date came around, she’ll trust that feeling rather than the words he said.</p>
<p>The term “flaking” implies that there is no reason for her canceling or not answering calls.</p>
<p>This is never true. There is always a reason.</p>
<p>If you go over the interaction piece by piece and decide that everything that was said and done was great, then go back over it thinking of how everything was said and done. Chances are your body might have said more – or less – than you wanted.</p>
<p>~ Kim</p>
<p><em>(Special thanks to Kim! I hope she doesn&#8217;t mind my creative use of images through out her post&#8230; Check her out over at <a href="http://pickuppodcast.com/author/kim/" target="_blank">Pickup Podcast!</a>)</em></p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Jul 2010 15:15:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Wygant</dc:creator>
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<h1>Married People Have No Clue!!</h1>
<p>Besides some of the people who are on online dating sites, who gives the worst dating advice? Let me think for a second . . .</p>
<p>I know a lot of you are thinking that this is me taking the opportunity to rip my competition, but I am not going to rip my competition here because I think some of them actually give decent dating advice.</p>
<p>Do you know who really gives the worst dating advice? Married people . . . especially the ones who have been married since they were twelve. Okay, maybe not twelve. Maybe they met their future spouse when they were seventeen.</p>
<p>Really, though, the only thing a married person knows is how monotonous sex can be with someone over a long period of time. Oh c’mon now . . . I know some of you still have a robust sex life. In reality, though, most of you are not humping the nights away.</p>
<p>Now I know I’ve opened up a nice can of worms with this one. I can feel the hair on the back of your necks starting to grow. By the way, guys, if you have hair growing on your back . . . wax it! Women really don’t want to date the GEICO caveman.</p>
<p>So let’s get back to the point of the blog. The point of the blog has nothing to do with hair, nor is it about married people’s bad sex life.</p>
<p>It is about the shitty advice that married people give their single friends. The dating world is changing every day.</p>
<p>It’s funny. I was at a party one night, and this married yenta started talking about the benefits of online dating. I looked at her and asked her “How long have you been married?” She said “Seventeen years.”</p>
<p>So me being me, I said “The Internet wasn’t even around when you were dating. Hell, we still had answering machines. We still had phones with metal antennas coming out of them. What do you know about online dating?”</p>
<p>Now, she had no idea what I do for a living. Let’s just say I was about to have some fun.</p>
<p>“A friend of mine met her husband on the Internet.” she continued. So then I started laughing and said “And that’s what makes you an expert in online dating?!” She said “Yes! I heard it works.”</p>
<p>I then told her “You know, Metamucil works also. It’s good for people who are full of shit!” She started laughing, and then asked me what I do for a living. I told her that I teach people how to make the most of their dating life.</p>
<p>So she starts screaming and brings over all the other married yentas in the room. For the next hour and a half, in a very nice Jewish fashion, they tried to set me up.</p>
<p>Then they all admitted that they really know nothing about dating. They just like to stick their nose in other people’s business.</p>
<p>So the moral of this story is this: If you are not out there dating, and you have not been dating since the first Bush mistake in 2000, then butt out of people’s business. Your friends don’t need your outdated bad advice.</p>
<p>When you go car shopping, you don’t ask a friend who always gets the worst lease deal to help you. When you do your taxes, you don’t go to the accountant who caused all his clients to be audited last year.</p>
<p>So why would you go to your married friend who’s not happily married in their life for your dating advice? It’s like going to Matt Millen for draft day advice.</p>
<p>So if you are confused in your dating life, I suggest you go to a non-biased person who can guide you in your dating life. Perhaps to someone who has a black Labrador Retriever named Daphne? Maybe to the person who wrote this blog? Might this be the better person to go to for dating advice?</p>
<p>Here’s my question to all of you: Who do you usually go to for dating advice besides me . . . and who has given you the worst dating advice you’ve ever heard?</p>
<p>Todays powerful video is all about teasing women. Enjoy!!</p>
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		<title>Question &#8211; Why don&#8217;t guys make the first move anymore?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Jul 2010 12:42:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Robby</dc:creator>
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<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #990000;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: 36px; color: #990000;">Q: </span><strong>Guys&#8230; do you always want the girl to make the first move?</strong></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #990000;">I want to know why guys don&#8217;t make the moves anymore?</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #990000;"> </span></p>
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<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: 36px; color: #1d3997;">A: </span><strong>We&#8217;re living in a time of feminized boys </strong>- men who have no proper tribal leadership from their absent fathers, and so are left feeling helpless, nervous, and lacking masculine power. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">It&#8217;s unfortunate and sad really. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">I</span><span style="color: #1d3997;">f you&#8217;re a masculine women (I don&#8217;t mean a manly woman) then you&#8217;ll feel very comfortable leading a man, taking him by the hand, and getting what you want. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">But from my experience most women prefer being very feminine, while I prefer being very masculine. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">There are still plenty of men out there who are willing to step up and be MEN, but you&#8217;ll just have to look harder. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">To all the boys out there who don&#8217;t know how to find their masculine energy, read anything written by David Deida ( <a href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/1591792576?tag=wwwbobaircom-20&amp;camp=14573&amp;creative=327641&amp;linkCode=as1&amp;creativeASIN=1591792576&amp;adid=04HXEP7QJ1TEZ8BRFKP8&amp;" target="_blank">link</a> ) </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;"> </span><span style="color: #1d3997;">~ Robby</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;"> </span></p>
<div id="attachment_1917" class="wp-caption alignnone" style="width: 462px"><a href="http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/feminized.jpg"><img class="size-large wp-image-1917" title="feminized" src="http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/feminized-452x1024.jpg" alt="" width="452" height="1024" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Why do today&#39;s super models all seem to approximate the physique of adolescent boys?</p></div>
<div id="attachment_1918" class="wp-caption alignnone" style="width: 539px"><a href="http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/gay.jpg"><img class="size-large wp-image-1918" title="abercrombie and fitch are gay" src="http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/gay-529x1024.jpg" alt="" width="529" height="1024" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Do all Abercrombie and Fitch models seem gay?</p></div>
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<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #990000;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: 36px; color: #990000;">Q: </span><strong>I What do women find most attractive in a guy, what catches her eye or what would she like her guy to be doing?</strong></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #990000;"> </span></p>
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<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: 36px; color: #1d3997;">A: </span><strong>Getting the girl isn&#8217;t about what you&#8217;re doing, or what you&#8217;re saying &#8211; it&#8217;s about who you&#8217;re BEING. </strong></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;"><strong><span style="font-weight: normal;">Be fun, be honest, be sincere, have your own opinion (especially if she disagrees with it) and you&#8217;ll discover women will suddenly start noticing you. </span></strong></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;"><strong><span style="font-weight: normal;">If you want to get a woman hooked on you then you must learn to make her &#8220;feel&#8221; things &#8211; if you&#8217;re boring, bland, or overly agreeable, you&#8217;ll be easily forgotten as a friend. But if you invoke an emotional reaction within her, she&#8217;ll be thinking about you all night (even if she&#8217;s mad at you.) </span></strong></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;"><strong><span style="font-weight: normal;">Make her laugh and she&#8217;ll FEEL. </span></strong></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;"><strong><span style="font-weight: normal;">Make her mad and she&#8217;ll FEEL. </span></strong></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;"><strong><span style="font-weight: normal;">It&#8217;s really all the same. </span></strong></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;"><strong><span style="font-weight: normal;">Once she&#8217;s mad or glad, then turn around and suddenly be sincere, sweet and insightful. </span></strong></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;"><strong><span style="font-weight: normal;">Flirting is all about teasing and tension &#8211; the art of making her FEEL you. </span></strong></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;"><strong><span style="font-weight: normal;">~ Robby</span></strong></span></p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Jul 2010 00:58:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Robby</dc:creator>
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<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #990000;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: 36px; color: #990000;">Q: </span><strong>I am 19 and I have never kissed a girl before. </strong></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #990000;"><strong> </strong>Honestly I feel embarrassing that I never kissed before. When it comes to the end of a date I don&#8217;t have enough courage to kiss her.</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #990000;">I have a friend who is 18. She is my high school friend (I would say buddy). We have known each other for 4 years. She was my first crash but we never end up dating. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #990000;">Shy? Yes <img src='http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #990000;">Now in college we met once again and I am about to ask her out.</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #990000;">However, I am scared because of the above reason.</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #990000;">Now I would honestly kiss any girl but her. Maybe because I am in love? Maybe&#8230;</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #990000;">I don&#8217;t know what to say or to ask&#8230; I just wrote my problem.</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #990000;"> </span></p>
<div id="attachment_1904" class="wp-caption alignnone" style="width: 560px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1904" title="sexy-shy-girl" src="http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/sexy-shy-girl.jpg" alt="" width="550" height="733" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Most girls are more shy then us, so don&#39;t sweat it!</p></div>
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<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: 36px; color: #1d3997;">A: </span><strong>I feel your pain. Luckily I&#8217;ve managed to discover the secret to &#8220;being shy&#8221; as well as the secret to &#8220;the first kiss.&#8221;</strong></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;"><strong>SHYNESS</strong></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">Shyness is actually an artifact of your ego trying to defend it&#8217;s self against possible criticism or the disapproval of others. Sounds strange doesn&#8217;t it?</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">Unfortunately the ego will do many things to protect it&#8217;s self, including stopping you from living a healthy positive life! Why people don&#8217;t speak up, or speak their mind, is because they ultimately  fear that they&#8217;ll be discovered as weak or inferior &#8211; all the while secretly hoping to BE superior.</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">I learned this from Eckhart Tolle &#8211; <a href="http://talentdevelop.com/articles/ETOSSAE.html" target="_blank">Read This</a>.</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">But when you learn to base your self-esteem upon your own voice, and not the opinions of others, you&#8217;ll learn that your ego will starve and fade, <strong>and your self-esteem will sky rocket</strong>. For more info on this process read anything by <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1878424580?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=wwwbobaircom-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=1878424580" target="_blank">Don Ruiz</a>. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">In any case, forget your ego, and start testing your insecurities&#8230; </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">I would suggest you start learning to socialize with everyone you meet. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">Talk to the old guy behind you in the grocery line, or the super hot waitress who takes your order. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">Learn to flirt.</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">Talk, talk, talk, talk, talk, talk.</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;"> </span></p>
<div id="attachment_1903" class="wp-caption alignnone" style="width: 510px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1903" title="being-social" src="http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/being-social.jpg" alt="" width="500" height="334" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Get out and be SOCIAL!</p></div>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">This is how you will quickly learn that nothing bad will ever happen to you even when others don&#8217;t agree with what you have to say. This is HUGE when it comes to meeting and attracting women.</span></p>
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<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;"><strong>THE FIRST KISS</strong></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">1) Realize that all women, even if they&#8217;re not interested in you, WANT you to at least try. I&#8217;ve heard this time and time again from many women. She wants to at least feel she&#8217;s worthy of your attempt.<strong> So just do it.</strong></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;"><strong> </strong></span></p>
<div id="attachment_1900" class="wp-caption alignnone" style="width: 560px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1900" title="jason-bateman-dustin-hoffman-kiss" src="http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/jason-bateman-dustin-hoffman-kiss.jpg" alt="" width="550" height="380" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Sometimes you just have to go for it.</p></div>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">2) Realize that even if she gives you her cheek, that doesn&#8217;t mean anything bad. It simply means &#8220;not yet.&#8221; <strong>You DON&#8217;T start back at square one</strong>, so nothing is lost. This will never cause her to not call you again. If she doesn&#8217;t call you again it&#8217;s because she already wasn&#8217;t going to &#8211; not because you tried to kiss her.</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">3) <strong>Help her get used to your touch</strong>. Help her out of the car by the hand, help her cross a busy restaurant by the hand, or even give her a sensual fake palm reading &#8211; touch, touch, touch. Don&#8217;t grope, keep it clean. Maybe whisper a secret in her ear, softly. It&#8217;ll give her goose bumps.</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;"> </span></p>
<div id="attachment_1902" class="wp-caption alignnone" style="width: 342px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1902" title="touch-her-more" src="http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/touch-her-more.jpg" alt="" width="332" height="332" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Help her to get comfortable with your touch.</p></div>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">4) Finally, don&#8217;t wait till the end of the date to kiss her -<strong> do it Mid-Date</strong>. When you kiss her, perhaps right after she&#8217;s made you laugh, you&#8217;ll both feel better. The tension will be gone, and the rest of the date will be WAY smoother.</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">I hope this helps,</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">~ Robby</span></p>
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<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #990000;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: 36px; color: #990000;">Q: </span><strong>Hi, I&#8217;m early twenties and just had my first long term relationship break up. </strong></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #990000;">I&#8217;m so puzzled by my ex&#8217;s reaction I&#8217;m now thinking maybe she is the norm and I am feeling hard done by when I shouldn&#8217;t be.</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #990000;">I was seeing my ex for just over 18 months, we&#8217;d talked about our future etc, and I thought everything was OK and we were reasonably solid. Looking back the week before the break up something wasn&#8217;t right but I didn&#8217;t expect her to call it a day as there was no mention / talk of being unhappy, I just went along as normal &#8211; hindsight is a wonderful thing. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #990000;">We were at my flat, just hanging out as usual as she&#8217;d been staying over for a few days, made dinner that night and ate together. No mention of nothing. Then she went home and she phoned me the next day and said she was unhappy. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #990000;">We spoke for 15 mins and she didn&#8217;t say anything but she has realized she is unhappy and its over. In the space of 24 hours I&#8217;d gone from waking up in bed, eating breakfast etc with a long term partner to its over with a brief phone call. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #990000;">That&#8217;s the last I heard from her.</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #990000;"><a href="http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/break_up-2438.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-1887" title="break_up-2438" src="http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/break_up-2438.jpg" alt="" width="400" height="309" /></a></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #990000;">She text&#8217;d me later that night saying, &#8220;I hope we can be friends when we are over this.&#8221; </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #990000;">I thought she&#8217;d contact me again but she never did. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #990000;">I emailed her a week later saying hey, I feel I deserve a bit more of an explanation than &#8220;I&#8217;ve suddenly realized I&#8217;m unhappy ,&#8221; and she emailed back, &#8220;why are you emailing me? I&#8217;m not speaking about this, I couldn&#8217;t be more clear.&#8221; ( I then found out she was slept with a guy the following weekend) Would that explain the harsh reaction to my email? Or was it me who was wrong to email? </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #990000;">I don&#8217;t understand her reaction, I thought she cared about me at least a little bit. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #990000;">I was with her for 2 years and in the space of a week we had gone from sleeping in the same bed to complete strangers. Or is that how all break ups are? It&#8217;s sort of my first. I feel a bit hard done by.</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #990000;"> Or am I being to sensitive and that is just a break up? I&#8217;ve never had anything to compare it too, but it felt a bit harsh to me.</span></p>
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<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: 36px; color: #1d3997;">A:</span><strong>Sorry to hear about your experience&#8230; that girl was HARSH! </strong></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">This isn&#8217;t the norm, and I applaud your reaction to the whole thing. Don&#8217;t become that angry jaded guy who&#8217;s suddenly scared to commit, or who&#8217;s prematurely pulling the trigger when each new woman has signs of disinterest. Most guys would have flipped out, but you sound like a really solid guy with a good head on his shoulders.</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-1886" title="keep-calm" src="http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/keep-calm3.jpg" alt="" width="550" height="433" /></span></p>
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<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">Keep up the good work. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">Her reason for being harsh is likely that she doesn&#8217;t want you reminding her that she was wrong to leave you hanging without an explanation. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">I guarantee she was already sleeping with this other guy, and was feeling guilty about it. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">I also guarantee she was this rude because you spent the relationship allowing her to be rude. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">&#8220;We teach others how to treat us.&#8221; </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">Learn what you can from this painful experience, and use it to improve all future relationships. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">I suspect you allowed her to walk all over you, or that you were at least very passive through out the relationship. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">Women aren&#8217;t rude to men they respect, and if she doesn&#8217;t respect you then you likely taught her through your lack of relationship boundaries. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">But, who knows, I&#8217;m often wrong. Feel bad about the breakup but don&#8217;t feel about your role. Break-ups are supposed to be awkward and upsetting. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">The easiest way to forget about an ex is to meet someone new worth getting to know.</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">Thanks for the email and best of luck man! </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">~ Robby</span></p>
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Q: </span><strong>My ex girlfriend (which I still love) is CLEARLY going out of her way to make me jealous.</strong></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #990000;">She always tells me about how much she likes and cares about her new guy. She then tells me she misses me heaps. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #990000;">I figured she is telling me this to see if I still like her by being jealous but I&#8217;m just pretending as if I don&#8217;t care and I&#8217;m fine with the whole thing. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #990000;">The truth is I really want her back, but should I continue pretending I don&#8217;t care or should I try to show her that I still care about her and how should I do that?</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #990000;"> PLEASE HELP!</span></p>
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<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: 36px; color: #1d3997;">A: </span><strong>This girl is currently your greatest teacher. </strong></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;"><strong> </strong>She is bringing you something few others will &#8211; a lesson in self-mastery.</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;"> </span></p>
<div id="attachment_1888" class="wp-caption alignnone" style="width: 362px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1888" title="make-ex-boyfriend-jealous" src="http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/make-ex-boyfriend-jealous.jpg" alt="" width="352" height="287" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Take this time to get over your jealousy issues.</p></div>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">How you learn to deal with jealousy early in your life will greatly dictate how great your masculine power will be expressed later in life. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">For the record, you&#8217;re doing the right thing &#8211; ignore her obvious attempts at goading you on. Just be sure that when you&#8217;re dealing with the emotions that bring you anger and jealousy (when you&#8217;re alone thinking about her with other guys) that you let them flow right through you without leaving a trace. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">Let the feelings come and go, without fighting them, and without losing your cool. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">This will prepare you for life&#8217;s greater challenges. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">Here&#8217;s a secret women don&#8217;t want you to know: They all want to end up with a guy they feel is better then themselves. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">She&#8217;s not going to desire you if you&#8217;re the jealous type. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">She&#8217;s not going to think you&#8217;re awesome if you don&#8217;t keep your cool. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">Always have composure, even if you&#8217;re dying inside. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">What was my point? </span></p>
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<div id="attachment_1889" class="wp-caption alignnone" style="width: 510px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1889 " title="flirt1" src="http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/flirt1.jpg" alt="" width="500" height="334" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Let the next girl help you forget your ex.</p></div>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">Oh ya, date someone else. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">Then it&#8217;s a WIN! </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">~ Robby</span></p>
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Q: </span><strong>We&#8217;ve been together 3 month and last night I ended up in a friends house who happened to be an ex, and we kissed, should I tell my girlfriend ?</strong></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #990000;">Or should I keep it from her to avoid hurting her as she&#8217;s never going to find out. </span><span style="color: #990000;">(Male &#8211; Age: 18-24)</span></p>
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<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: 36px; color: #1d3997;">A:</span><strong>Well you made a childish/selfish mistake. So don&#8217;t make another one! </strong></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">Telling the girlfriend about your mistake IS NOT the answer. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">Why? </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">Because all it does is make you feel better, and make her feel worse. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">We tend to unburden ourselves on the one&#8217;s we love simply because we&#8217;re trying to unload our feelings of guilt&#8230; and in some occasions this makes relationships stronger&#8230; but not in this case. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">There&#8217;s nothing that can be done now. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">It was a mistake that you regret, and that you will never do again (right!?) So be a man, live with your guilt, and don&#8217;t burden her with your baggage. These are the mistakes that help lift you up from boy to man, so take special NOTE and never allow yourself to become so selfish again &#8211; especially when you&#8217;re committed to someone else. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">Keep it to yourself, and move on. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">Regret your actions, but then forgive yourself and move on! </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">Best of luck, </span></p>
<p>~ Robby</p>
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<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #990000;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: 36px; color: #990000;">Q: </span><strong>Robby, I read some of your articles and I thought they were full of great advice.</strong></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #990000;"><strong><span style="font-weight: normal;">In your article about how to get a girl you mention some great tips about attracting women. I am currently a virgin, never-kissed-a-girl, dateless guy, and I am wondering how I can change that. </span></strong></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #990000;"><strong><span style="font-weight: normal;">I also wanted to know if you had any advice on how to not be the &#8220;stinky guy on the buss who can’t smell himself&#8221; because I think that I am that guy too. People seem to be coughing around me when I enter a room. If you could give me any suggestions I would greatly appreciate it. </span></strong></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #990000;"><strong><span style="font-weight: normal;">Thanks, </span></strong></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #990000;"><strong><span style="font-weight: normal;">Jake</span></strong></span></p>
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<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: 36px; color: #1d3997;">A: </span><strong>Jake, I’ll give you some quick advice based on what I’m picking up on from your email…</strong></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">The secret to dating beautiful women? </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">Being social. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">It’s that easy.</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-1850" title="being-social" src="http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/be-social.jpg" alt="" width="450" height="301" /></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">Any guy who’s learned to be highly social has discovered a secret that shy guy’s don’t understand – not only does nothing bad happen when a girl isn’t interested in talking with you, but it’s not really that hard to change her mind if you really want to. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">Talk to any “natural” or any guy who’s AMAZING with women, and you’ll discover that ALL share something in common. Know what it is? </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">They’re all willing to chit-chat with anyone and most often they do. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">I did this as a kid and I learned that people LOVE to socialize. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">My problem was that when puberty hit I developed terrible acne for years, which made me pull back in on myself – and not until I got divorced did I reunite with my love for people. </span></p>
<h2><span style="color: #1d3997;"><strong>SIDE-TOPIC: INNER GAME </strong></span></h2>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">If your MIND is your Garden, then the THOUGHTS and BELIEFS that you plant and nurture will grow as an expression of yourself. If you allow negative thoughts to hang around <em>(“I’m too skinny… girls like big guys”) </em>then your expression of yourself will be <em>“I’m too skinny.”</em></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;"><em> </em> That might mean that you over-eat causing yourself to get flabby and unhealthy. You might wear clothes that are too big so that you can hide your ribs. You might express poor body posture because you’re unconsciously trying to hide your body under your clothes. You’d be amazed at how these types of thoughts become expressed outwardly, but make no mistake… <strong>women NOTICE these expressions.</strong></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;"><strong> </strong> Women can FEEL how you FEEL because they’re empathic.</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">Tend to your garden. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">Plant more fruit, and pull more weeds. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">A simple exercise, when you’re willing to do it, is to write down the <em>“weeds” </em>of your beliefs… make a list of things you think about yourself that likely hinders your self-esteem. Then take a red pen, cross them out (like erasing them from reality) and rewrite them to become more empowering. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">(I’ve included an example JPG.) <img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-1842" title="examples" src="http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/examples.jpg" alt="" width="600" height="404" /></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;"><strong>Shy guys suffer from ego problems</strong>… they’re so protective of their ego’s that they refuse to risk bruising it through social interactions. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">This is sad really. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;"><strong>If you’re too shy to talk to women it usually means you’re too shy to talk to everyone. </strong></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">The best steps to overcome this is to study books on the human ego, and to practice socializing with every human you meet… talk to the old man behind you, talk to the cashier, and go online and talk with people via social networking. </span></p>
<h2><span style="color: #1d3997;"><strong>NEXT STEPS </strong></span></h2>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">The next reason guys don’t meet more women is that they don’t escalate with the women they DO meet. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">No matter how much a woman likes you, she’s not going to make the first move. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">Or the second. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">Or the third. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">It’s your job as a man to LEAD her from the street to the bedroom, to the alter. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;"><strong>YOU. </strong></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;"><strong>MUST. </strong></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;"><strong>LEAD. </strong></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-1849" title="Become A Leader" src="http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Become-A-Leader.jpg" alt="" width="500" height="400" /></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">This means that every time you meet a girl worth getting to know you MUST make a date (don’t worry about getting her number, go straight to a meet-up.) Memorize a default line like this,<em> “You know what? You’re fun! I know this cute little dessert place, let’s grab a coffee there tomorrow night at 6.”</em> </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;"> If she says, <em>“no thanks,”</em> then simply say, <em>“Ha! Fair enough.” </em></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">When you’re on a date it’s your job to kiss her mid-date (don’t wait till the end) right after she&#8217;s laughed hard at your lame joke. If you wait more then two dates to kiss her, then she’ll lose interest, and you’ll become over whelmed by the pressure. When you do nothing, you end up in the friends zone &#8211; the purgatory for men who refused to take action. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">“He who hesitates masturbates.” </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">Nothing will teach you more about women then social experience. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">You must force your body to experience interactions with women before you’ll get good at it. </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">I’ve said too much.</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">Keep me updated on your progress! </span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">~ Robby</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #1d3997;">P.S. As for your problem with the coughing? It&#8217;s most likely that you either don&#8217;t shower enough or that you&#8217;re overly sensitive about how you smell which is causing you to wear TOO MUCH cologne. Stop wearing cologne for a few weeks and see if that makes any difference. This includes body sprays.</span></p>
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<p>I love the questions guys, please keep them coming!</p>
<p>~ Robby</p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Jul 2010 20:07:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Robby</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Escape the Friend Zone and Seduce her from being "just a friend" to your next lover.]]></description>
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<h3>How To Turn A Friend Into Your Girlfriend &#8211; By David Kwan</h3>
<blockquote><p><a href="http://www.eseduce.com/how-to-turn-a-friend-to-be-your-girlfriend/"><img class="alignnone size-thumbnail wp-image-1829" title="seduce-your-friend" src="http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Jensen-his-girlfriend-jensen-ackles-1638759-900-1209-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a></p>
<p>&#8220;Women are programmed to DESPISE weak men. The most important female need is to feel SAFE, and a weak man is never going to be able to make her feel this way.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p><a href="http://www.eseduce.com/how-to-turn-a-friend-to-be-your-girlfriend/" target="_blank">eSeduce.com</a></p>
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<h3>How to Avoid the Friend Zone &#8211; David DeAngelo</h3>
<blockquote><p><a href="http://www.doubleyourdating.com/get-girlfriend/avoid-friend-zone.html"><img class="alignnone size-thumbnail wp-image-1830" title="how-to-be-just-friends" src="http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/how-to-be-just-friends-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a></p>
<p>&#8220;You&#8217;ve met a woman you think might be “The         One” but she tells you that she&#8217;s not feeling anything         “romantic” with you. Learn the one secret to what it         takes to have her “feel it” for you and what to AVOID         doing, so you&#8217;re not stuck in the “friend zone”         over and over with exceptional women.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p><a href="http://www.doubleyourdating.com/get-girlfriend/avoid-friend-zone.html" target="_blank">DoubleYourDating.com</a></p>
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<h3>How to Turn a Woman from Friend to Lover</h3>
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<p>&#8220;Some women keep you as a friend because you&#8217;ve been too scared to make  		your romantic interest known, or you&#8217;ve made a bunch of bonehead mistakes,  		and alienated her (at least temporarily) from being romantic. Perhaps you&#8217;ve  		made fart jokes, said callous things, or treated her like a buddy; nothing  		too serious. These are women you&#8217;ve got a shot at changing into lovers.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p><a href="http://www.sosuave.com/rondavid/succeed18.htm" target="_blank">SoSuave.com</a></p>
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<h3>How To Seduce Her From “Friend” To “Lover” In 5 Steps Or Less. &#8211; Written by me.</h3>
<blockquote><p><a rel="attachment wp-att-611" href="http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/from-relating-to-dating-how-to-seduce-her-from-friend-to-lover-in-5-steps-or-less/seduce-her-from-friends-to-lovers/"><img class="alignnone size-thumbnail wp-image-611" title="seduce-her-from-friends-to-lovers" src="http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/seduce-her-from-friends-to-lovers-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a></p>
<p>&#8220;In almost every scenario you end up rejected, embarrassed, or suppressed.</p>
<p>What’s the best way to move forward?</p>
<p>Well I finally have the answer and it only took me 10 years to figure it out. Hopefully you’ll be wise enough to pay attention to my timely advice.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
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<h3>http://www.getoutofthefriendzone.com/</h3>
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<p>&#8220;So you’re good friends with a woman, but over time developed feelings for her. Now you’re wondering what you can do to get her to like you and accomplish the unthinkable: get out of the friend zone.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p><a href="getoutofthefriendzone.com" target="_blank">getoutofthefriendzone.com</a></p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jul 2010 13:00:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Robby</dc:creator>
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<h3>58-Year-Old Dude Met Women Online Then Cheated Them Out Of $200,000 &#8211; Found Guilty</h3>
<blockquote><p><a href="http://www.lohud.com/article/20100715/NEWS02/7150418/-1/newsfront/Ardsley-Internet-dating-Lothario-pleads-guilty-to-bilking-women"><img class="size-thumbnail wp-image-1810 alignnone" title="bilde" src="http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/bilde-150x150.png" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a></p>
<p>&#8220;The 58-year-old trolled dating sites such as Match.com and Plentyoffish.com looking for victims over a nearly three-year period from July 2005 to March 2008, District Attorney Janet DiFiore said.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
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<h3>Black Guys Like White Chicks?</h3>
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<h3>Vatican makes attempted ordination of women a grave crime</h3>
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<p>&#8220;The Vatican today made the &#8220;attempted ordination&#8221; of women one of the gravest crimes under church law, putting it in the same category as clerical sex abuse of minors, heresy and schism.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
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<h3>Kayden Nguyen v. Steven Seagal (PICTURES): $1M Sex Harassment Suit Dismissed</h3>
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<p>&#8220;Nguyen had claimed that on three occasions Seagal &#8216;sexually assaulted&#8217; her with unwanted contact and groping at a Louisiana home where the actor and his family were staying. She accused Seagal of trapping her as a personal &#8216;sex toy.&#8217;&#8221;</p></blockquote>
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