Comments on: Is she the boss of you? The Dynamics of Holding Hands … http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/holding-hands-follow-the-leader/ How to attract, seduce, and date beautiful women without feeling ignored, rejected, or angry. Fri, 03 Sep 2010 12:21:15 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: Lyn http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/holding-hands-follow-the-leader/comment-page-1/#comment-291 Lyn Fri, 03 Apr 2009 04:46:09 +0000 http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/?p=193#comment-291 I am totally on board with your observations, Robby. I totally dig it when my boyfriend takes my hand in his, and his hand is on top. Add to that walking on the curbside, and I know an alpha male when I see him. When we cross a street, he guides me in front of him, takes my other hand in his other hand so he remains curbside. When we get to his car, he opens the door for me. Call me old-fashioned, but I find this totally hot. ~Lyn I am totally on board with your observations, Robby. I totally dig it when my boyfriend takes my hand in his, and his hand is on top. Add to that walking on the curbside, and I know an alpha male when I see him. When we cross a street, he guides me in front of him, takes my other hand in his other hand so he remains curbside. When we get to his car, he opens the door for me. Call me old-fashioned, but I find this totally hot. ~Lyn

]]> By: Robby http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/holding-hands-follow-the-leader/comment-page-1/#comment-287 Robby Tue, 24 Mar 2009 17:33:36 +0000 http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/?p=193#comment-287 It's the small things that happen throughout a relationship (that go under the radar) that either inspires her attraction or kills it. Either he's leading and providing her the safety of his presence, or he's following and draining her with his presence. I suspect there are some relationships where this is reversible - the women provides the masculine energy and the man provides the feminine - but this is a small segment. Thanks for the comment! ~ Robby It’s the small things that happen throughout a relationship (that go under the radar) that either inspires her attraction or kills it. Either he’s leading and providing her the safety of his presence, or he’s following and draining her with his presence.

I suspect there are some relationships where this is reversible – the women provides the masculine energy and the man provides the feminine – but this is a small segment.

Thanks for the comment!

~ Robby

]]> By: Pat http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/holding-hands-follow-the-leader/comment-page-1/#comment-286 Pat Tue, 24 Mar 2009 17:21:30 +0000 http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/?p=193#comment-286 Like your idea Robert makes for some deep thinking but I'm not convinced that holding hands one way or another denotes leadership, but you could be onto something. Like your idea Robert makes for some deep thinking but I’m not convinced that holding hands one way or another denotes leadership, but you could be onto something.

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