If you mean you’re simply going to ask her on a date, well you can do that any time.

I suspect you’re making too big a deal out of the idea of a “date.” It’s not a commitment, nor does it need to feel like one.

For example, what’s more likely to make her feel like you’re putting her on the spot?

1) “Hey Susan, will you go out with me?”
2) “Hey Susan, will you go on a date with me?”
3) “Hey Susan, I’ve been dying to check out this new Italian place downtown, I hear they have the BEST food – care to join me? I was thinking Wednesday night.”

If you can manage to get her alone, and share private time together, then you’re dating. You don’t need to call it dating and you don’t need to say the words out loud. Just invite her to things with you, pick her up, take her out, and have fun. And slowly, over the first two dates, escalate the intimacy and physical touch.

It’ll be so smooth she won’t have any reason to stop or reject you simply because it’ll feel “right.” Hug her hello, then share some funny stories, then share some private stories (confide in each other), then pretend to read her palm which gives you a change to feel and touch her hands real slow, then hold her hand across the busy room, then cuddle while sitting side by side, then kiss her. From there she’ll be hooked. But do all of this within two dates otherwise she’ll think you’re just friends.

Trust me, it’s better to be rejected when you’re trying to kiss her then when you’re trying to get her out on a date with you.

Hope this helps,
~ Robby

I just wanted ask a sort of the same question I did ask her out before she said no, I am close friends with her, she will only talk to someone if they talk to her first. She is very shy but opens up to me. I don’t know what to do. This girl told me to ask her out on valentines day when we are in Italy together. Is that a good move or stupid.

The fastest way to turn her around is to lean back yourself, stop doing any aggressive perusing, and step up your “attraction.”

Read this: http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/how-to-create-attraction-in-a-woman/

In most cases I suggest you spent more time meeting new women who aren’t already going out of their way avoiding you. It’s a better way of spending your energy.

How You know when its just simply TOO late. And you know she’ll never feel attraction for you again??

think back rob, doesn’t this sound like you having a deja vú?
Comes pretty closes to my situation ^^