She’s waiting for you to make the first move… quit being a pussy.
Q: Guys… do you always want the girl to make the first move?
I want to know why guys don’t make the moves anymore?
A: We’re living in a time of feminized boys - men who have no proper tribal leadership from their absent fathers, and so are left feeling helpless, nervous, and lacking masculine power.
It’s unfortunate and sad really.
If you’re a masculine women (I don’t mean a manly woman) then you’ll feel very comfortable leading a man, taking him by the hand, and getting what you want.
But from my experience most women prefer being very feminine, while I prefer being very masculine.
There are still plenty of men out there who are willing to step up and be MEN, but you’ll just have to look harder.
To all the boys out there who don’t know how to find their masculine energy, read anything written by David Deida ( link )
~ Robby
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Do all Abercrombie and Fitch models seem gay?
Q: I What do women find most attractive in a guy, what catches her eye or what would she like her guy to be doing?
A: Getting the girl isn’t about what you’re doing, or what you’re saying – it’s about who you’re BEING.
Be fun, be honest, be sincere, have your own opinion (especially if she disagrees with it) and you’ll discover women will suddenly start noticing you.
If you want to get a woman hooked on you then you must learn to make her “feel” things – if you’re boring, bland, or overly agreeable, you’ll be easily forgotten as a friend. But if you invoke an emotional reaction within her, she’ll be thinking about you all night (even if she’s mad at you.)
Make her laugh and she’ll FEEL.
Make her mad and she’ll FEEL.
It’s really all the same.
Once she’s mad or glad, then turn around and suddenly be sincere, sweet and insightful.
Flirting is all about teasing and tension – the art of making her FEEL you.
~ Robby
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6 Responses
Pretty much gotta agree with you on the first question and i must admit i never, ever, though I’d say something like that but:
Maybe my so-called father would have been good for something after all…
The change of society might be part of ‘us’ not understanding that we should become more masculine again. (Wow, this sounds so weird assuming that i myself might be to feminine, haha
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The 2nd question is nothing i shall really comment on. It’s the essence of what you’re teaching and should be understood by everone who’s reading your blog
so I take it you are completely against assertive, aggressive Women Robby? You prefer to be All Macho?
Assertive women are fantastic because they help connect with guys who won’t make the first move. Plus it’s nice dating a woman who gets her own shit done. But when it comes to the bedroom I prefer to be the driver. That’s just how I roll.
But there are plenty of relationships where the dynamics work best with the woman being assertive and the man being submissive, expressive and feminine. It just depends on your personality as a guy and what you naturally prefer. From my experience you’ll find that many women are assertive but are still more comfortable being submissive and feminine around their main man.
Macho’s got nothing to do with being assertive or confident. Macho is an over compensation for insecurities. It’s bravado and fake. That’s not what I’m talking about.
I love women who make the first move and ask men out, take the initiative, do the pursuing or chasing, but that does not mean I am always passive, for the most part, I take the initiative and ask women out, approach them because I have to, not because I want to. Instead of complaining about wanting to change society’s contructs, status quo’s, it’s better to adapt to it. It’s like people say “it’s the Law of the Jungle”, time to adapt to the Harsh Terrain.
Good point. The man with the most options up his sleeves tends to “win.” Being adaptive is a great quality!
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