Women do not like neediness for one reason (it is basically the same reason why men do not like neediness in women):

Yes, being needy is childish for the simple reason that it is self-centered behavior. When a person is too needy, it indicates a general lack of trust, respect, and empathy. Sure you’ve got needs, but the person you are dating does too! You do not own that person. She should not be expected to sacrifice her responsibilities, work, hobbies, friends, family, and breathing space.

Neediness ruins all relationships. Most needy people I have met have trouble not only forming stable and valuable relationships, but forming good friendships too. Needines= a display of a negative mindset and anxities. Having a negative mindset destroys all possibilities of a positive outcome.

However, it is important not to play games either. Don’t become a mean guy just to avoid “seeiming needy”, because remember dating is not about “making someone like you.” It is about letting someone discover that they like you as well as you discovering that you like that person too! The only way you can let that discovery happen is by letting go and being yourself. Both playing “hard to get” and “neediness” are examples of trying to force an attraction to happen. Trying to force an attraction to take place is never romantic, attractive, or magical. It is forced like bad comedy. So do not do it man!

Just let things happen naturally and be you!

Your actions alone don’t dictate your motivations. So instead of worrying about “appearing needy” or “behaving needy” you should pay attention to how you FEEL.

If your actions are dictated by feelings of neediness, then you’re acting needy. It’s really that easy.

And if your actions are dictated by feelings of excitement, enjoyment, anticipation, etc, then perhaps you’re not being needy, just excited.

It’s all about how you feel, because she’ll pick up on that.

If you’re trying to kiss her because you’re desperate to make her like you, then you’re being needy. But if you’re trying to kiss her because you really want to feel her lips against yours, or because you want her to feel as good as you do, then you’re likely not being needy.

Either way you SHOULD at lease TRY to kiss her before the third date, otherwise you’ve missed your window.
~ Robby

I appreciated all your articles.

keep it up Robby!

Great Stuff – makes me realize some of things I need to keep in mind.