Comments on: What if CONFIDENCE is a Scam? http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/what-if-confidence-is-a-scam/ How to attract, seduce, and date beautiful women without feeling ignored, rejected, or angry. Fri, 03 Sep 2010 12:21:15 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: Robby http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/what-if-confidence-is-a-scam/comment-page-1/#comment-1119 Robby Fri, 03 Sep 2010 12:21:15 +0000 http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/?p=22#comment-1119 Life isn't about trying to label your life in comparison to others. Some people of great lives, some don't. Some people have legs and some don't. Some guys act like they're victims and they complain that everyone else has life so easy (you?) Some guys realize that life is what you make of it. Guess which of these types of guys sleep happy and which ones sleep angry and jaded? Stop comparing yourself to the world and start making it what you want it to be. Life isn’t about trying to label your life in comparison to others. Some people of great lives, some don’t. Some people have legs and some don’t.

Some guys act like they’re victims and they complain that everyone else has life so easy (you?)

Some guys realize that life is what you make of it.

Guess which of these types of guys sleep happy and which ones sleep angry and jaded?

Stop comparing yourself to the world and start making it what you want it to be.

]]> By: Andrew http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/what-if-confidence-is-a-scam/comment-page-1/#comment-1118 Andrew Thu, 02 Sep 2010 23:56:18 +0000 http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/?p=22#comment-1118 so really, being a man, male, males have life easier than women do? so really, being a man, male, males have life easier than women do?

]]> By: Robby http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/what-if-confidence-is-a-scam/comment-page-1/#comment-1078 Robby Fri, 13 Aug 2010 11:44:20 +0000 http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/?p=22#comment-1078 This is a childish way of looking at love. You're seeing the world as a place that OWES you something. You're upset that ALL women don't just give you what you want. You're being selfish and needy. This is why you can't see other options. Options where relationships are built upon mutual attraction, respect, and giving. Stop thinking of women as creatures who give you pleasure and assurance, and start thinking of them as people who deserve to be with whom ever they wish. The real reason you're having trouble finding love is that you're not yet worthy. Find a way to fullfill your own inner neediness and emptiness. Fill yourself up. Once full you'll discover women will find you a thousand times more attractive. This is a childish way of looking at love.

You’re seeing the world as a place that OWES you something. You’re upset that ALL women don’t just give you what you want. You’re being selfish and needy. This is why you can’t see other options.

Options where relationships are built upon mutual attraction, respect, and giving.

Stop thinking of women as creatures who give you pleasure and assurance, and start thinking of them as people who deserve to be with whom ever they wish.

The real reason you’re having trouble finding love is that you’re not yet worthy. Find a way to fullfill your own inner neediness and emptiness. Fill yourself up. Once full you’ll discover women will find you a thousand times more attractive.

]]> By: Jonathan http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/what-if-confidence-is-a-scam/comment-page-1/#comment-1073 Jonathan Fri, 13 Aug 2010 10:33:18 +0000 http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/?p=22#comment-1073 My friend, who is also a guy, and I couldn't agree with him more, he says "Love just comes to Women, us Men have to fight tooth and nail for it" My friend, who is also a guy, and I couldn’t agree with him more, he says “Love just comes to Women, us Men have to fight tooth and nail for it”

]]> By: Robby http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/what-if-confidence-is-a-scam/comment-page-1/#comment-1059 Robby Wed, 11 Aug 2010 13:05:58 +0000 http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/?p=22#comment-1059 Those are pretty decent reasons I'd not want to be a woman. Plus the dangers of rape, molested, or murdered because of jealousy. Or how about the horrible social judgements we have for women that men don't suffer from - being old, fat, slutty, bitchy, fridged, easy, or whorish. Not too men worry about being seen as slutty. All I know is that women are more vulnerable to physical and emotional traumas that I'll never encounter just because I'm a guy. Those are pretty decent reasons I’d not want to be a woman. Plus the dangers of rape, molested, or murdered because of jealousy. Or how about the horrible social judgements we have for women that men don’t suffer from – being old, fat, slutty, bitchy, fridged, easy, or whorish. Not too men worry about being seen as slutty. All I know is that women are more vulnerable to physical and emotional traumas that I’ll never encounter just because I’m a guy.

]]> By: Andrew http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/what-if-confidence-is-a-scam/comment-page-1/#comment-1056 Andrew Wed, 11 Aug 2010 12:04:28 +0000 http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/?p=22#comment-1056 is it because we don't have to endure periods, pregnancy and child-birth? is that why? or for other reasons? is it because we don’t have to endure periods, pregnancy and child-birth? is that why? or for other reasons?

]]> By: Robby http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/what-if-confidence-is-a-scam/comment-page-1/#comment-1053 Robby Wed, 11 Aug 2010 11:39:12 +0000 http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/?p=22#comment-1053 Compared to the alternative I'd say we've got the easy end of the deal. ;) Compared to the alternative I’d say we’ve got the easy end of the deal. ;)

]]> By: Andrew http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/what-if-confidence-is-a-scam/comment-page-1/#comment-1050 Andrew Wed, 11 Aug 2010 10:58:53 +0000 http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/?p=22#comment-1050 Being a Man is such a Burden, it is very hard work, but we all have to make sacrifices Being a Man is such a Burden, it is very hard work, but we all have to make sacrifices

]]> By: Robby http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/what-if-confidence-is-a-scam/comment-page-1/#comment-952 Robby Mon, 12 Jul 2010 10:30:17 +0000 http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/?p=22#comment-952 Read. A lot! Anything that promotes self awareness, healing, and character building. And if you're still uncertain and confused then talk with a pro. They're good at what they do and they understand some good shit! Read. A lot! Anything that promotes self awareness, healing, and character building. And if you’re still uncertain and confused then talk with a pro. They’re good at what they do and they understand some good shit!

]]> By: Renegade http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/what-if-confidence-is-a-scam/comment-page-1/#comment-950 Renegade Mon, 12 Jul 2010 04:25:03 +0000 http://www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com/blog/?p=22#comment-950 "They believed that this mirror reflected everything around us, but over time dust would accumulate on the mirror which would distort what was reflected. This is why many of them thought it important to always be “polishing the mirror” as an attempt to keep their minds free of vexing thoughts or negative beliefs." What do I do about the cracks in my mirror? “They believed that this mirror reflected everything around us, but over time dust would accumulate on the mirror which would distort what was reflected. This is why many of them thought it important to always be “polishing the mirror” as an attempt to keep their minds free of vexing thoughts or negative beliefs.”

What do I do about the cracks in my mirror?

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