Comments on: What if CONFIDENCE is a Scam?

By: Robby

Robby — Sun, 15 Jan 2012 16:14:00 +0000

That’s fantastic!

I also loved most anything by Anthony Robbins … he get’s into fundamentals of how we humans interpret the world. Pretty deep and interesting stuff.

Like this one: http://www.amazon.com/Awaken-Giant-Within-Immediate-Emotional/dp/0671791540/ref=ntt_at_ep_dpt_1

Eckhart Tolle is awesome: http://www.amazon.com/Power-Now-Guide-Spiritual-Enlightenment/dp/1577314808/ref=pd_sim_b_1

And, of course, anything by David DeAngelo: http://www.amazon.com/Being-Man-Naturally-Attracts-Double/dp/B001IW1MIS/ref=sr_1_12?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1326643983&sr=1-12

By: Eric

Eric — Sun, 15 Jan 2012 13:49:37 +0000

Hi Robby, I found your website a little while ago and am loving it. I read the Four Agreements, am reading The Way Of The Superior Man, and plan on buying your book a little further on when I am ready. Any other books/activities you recommend to “fill myself up”? (Which, by the way, is a concept I finally understand, and definitely agree with)

By: Robby

Robby — Fri, 13 Jan 2012 13:29:06 +0000

Obviously you’re either trolling my website or you didn’t read the article.

By: C E

C E — Tue, 10 Jan 2012 15:48:47 +0000

So, women inherently “deserve” to be with whomever they wish, but we males are not “worthy” until we’ve jumped through 1000 hoops?

By: Andrew

Andrew — Sat, 04 Sep 2010 20:56:41 +0000

Easier said than done, but you are right, I’ve noticed that for the most part in life, Men judge Women based on their looks and physical appearence just as in the same way Women judge Men based on their attitude, mindset, mentality, way of thinking, the way they carry themselves, their occupation, status or social status, resources(not just money, but their place in society, their social connections, the type of friends they have, what type of life they have or live), social skills, talking skills, etc.

By: Robby

Robby — Fri, 03 Sep 2010 12:21:15 +0000

Life isn’t about trying to label your life in comparison to others. Some people of great lives, some don’t. Some people have legs and some don’t.

Some guys act like they’re victims and they complain that everyone else has life so easy (you?)

Some guys realize that life is what you make of it.

Guess which of these types of guys sleep happy and which ones sleep angry and jaded?

Stop comparing yourself to the world and start making it what you want it to be.

By: Andrew

Andrew — Thu, 02 Sep 2010 23:56:18 +0000

so really, being a man, male, males have life easier than women do?

By: Robby

Robby — Fri, 13 Aug 2010 11:44:20 +0000

This is a childish way of looking at love.

You’re seeing the world as a place that OWES you something. You’re upset that ALL women don’t just give you what you want. You’re being selfish and needy. This is why you can’t see other options.

Options where relationships are built upon mutual attraction, respect, and giving.

Stop thinking of women as creatures who give you pleasure and assurance, and start thinking of them as people who deserve to be with whom ever they wish.

The real reason you’re having trouble finding love is that you’re not yet worthy. Find a way to fullfill your own inner neediness and emptiness. Fill yourself up. Once full you’ll discover women will find you a thousand times more attractive.

By: Jonathan

Jonathan — Fri, 13 Aug 2010 10:33:18 +0000

My friend, who is also a guy, and I couldn’t agree with him more, he says “Love just comes to Women, us Men have to fight tooth and nail for it”

By: Robby

Robby — Wed, 11 Aug 2010 13:05:58 +0000

Those are pretty decent reasons I’d not want to be a woman. Plus the dangers of rape, molested, or murdered because of jealousy. Or how about the horrible social judgements we have for women that men don’t suffer from – being old, fat, slutty, bitchy, fridged, easy, or whorish. Not too men worry about being seen as slutty. All I know is that women are more vulnerable to physical and emotional traumas that I’ll never encounter just because I’m a guy.