Dating Mindsets Explained
Getting the girl isn’t just a Hollywood fantasy; attracting beautiful women isn’t the sole domain of the super rich, the super hunk, or the outrageously gifted.
I know this now, but for most of my life I believed the opposite, as well as other crippling assumptions about women, dating and sex.
I’ve written this book because I hate seeing men who are completely confused, frustrated and lonely like I was. It’s true that if you keep doing what you’ve always done then you’ll keep getting what you’ve always got. This eBook is all about you rewriting your beliefs and attitudes about women and dating. It’s that simple.
I’m No George Clooney.
I’m no natural.
I was never good with women.
But I did what most guys won’t … I studied, I practiced, I wrote it down, and I committed to getting this part of my life handled.
This is a lifestyle I used to dream about, and now I want to share it with every single man I can find!
In case you don’t know: IGNORE And SCORE is the term I have ‘coined’ for the pickup style that I’ve developed. I’ve dated many MANY amazing women over the past 6 years and I’ve done so completely on purpose.
My sexual success has been no accident.
Books Helping Men Attract Beautiful Women Are Not Available On Shelves
Next time you’re in your local bookstore you should take a moment to realize how under valued men’s health is in literature. Women have shelves upon shelves of self-help materials, but men don’t.
Why is that? Why don’t men want to know this stuff!?
Unfortunately it’s because most guys don’t realize that you can LEARN basics like attraction, seduction, and female psychology!
I Was Fat And Divorced
I loved women (still do) but it seemed that the more I tried to meet and impress them the more frustrated and rejected I became.
At 28 I had entered the very different world of dating with absolutely no skills at socializing, meeting or attracting women.
I didn’t even know that you could learn how to attract women!
My first instinct was to lose weight and to get fit.
I updated my wardrobe, diet, and training.
I really turned my health around and ended up looking my best!
I even waxed my back… I know, right?
I Started Meeting Girls
After feeling pretty good about my appearance my confidence returned and I started talking to girls again.
And guess what happened? I had spent so much time trying to impress my ex wife I had zero skills at actually attracting women.
What happened next really confused and frustrated me. I could meet women without much problem (because I was cute and nice) but I could not keep a girl to save my life.
Meeting women was easy but turning one of them into my girlfriend was an impossibility.
Every time I meet a girl I liked she’d end up walking away from me after just a few dates.
What Was I Doing Wrong?!
I wasn’t creating attraction.
Instead I was being super nice, which builds rapport and creates good friends, but that only leads to the “Friend’s Zone.”
So I sulked for about a year before I got my act together.
Then I started reading.
I started reading everything I could on dating, pickup, attraction and seduction. I became hungry for knowledge, and VERY excited to learn that some skills CAN be learned!
I started to learn from my stupid mistakes.
I also started to notice something I’ve since coined as the “IGNORE and SCORE” method of attraction and dating. I started to notice the way some guys would behave around really hot girls. And it was completely different than how I was acting.
I paid attention, applied my knowledge, and I started dating again.
Then I Found Success!
I also discovered that strong Inner Game manifests strong Outer Game and so I was able to build my social circle of friends as well.
And for 7 years I met hundreds of amazing women. I raised my standards, improved my self-esteem, rebuilt my personal boundaries and expectations, and I really raised the bar for the type of women I wanted to ultimately end up with.
Something else happened.
I got fat and lazy and gained about 30 lbs.
But since my mindsets were now powerful and attractive it didn’t slow down my dating. At all!
Try to understand somethingâ€¦ my goal was never to go out and get laid (although I did) and my goal was never to get any girl I met (although I always got the girls I really wanted) because ultimately I was looking for real love from just one amazing woman.
Today I’m living comfortably as a computer geek, while living with my beautiful girlfriend.
I’m over weight, smart, and loveable.
Over the last 6 years I’ve dated the most beautiful women I ever thought possible, I’ve read more books on dating and pickup than most, and I’ve dated hundreds of other women in my endless pursuit of learning about love, sex, and relationships.
I’ve spent the last few years gathering my thoughts on Dating Success, Inner GameTactics, and Pickup Techniques and I’ve compiled them into this philosophy called IGNORE and SCORE.
IGNORE and SCORE is my way of proving that YOU can do the same: you can quickly learn the foundations of what makes women “turned on” and what “pushes them away.”
If I can save just ONE MAN (you) from the embarrassment of rejection by teaching him (you) how to avoiding typical dating mistakes then this eBook will have been well worth all the hours I’ve spent writing it!
Buy it, read it, and if it doesn’t help you at all return it. Then email me and complain! Amazon has an amazing return policy and my email address is in my book. Seriously, let me know what you think.
Dating Secrets Revealed In This Book
Here are some examples of what you’ll learn:
What naturally creates attraction within a woman and one simple mindset you should always have that will naturally make you stand out from most other men.
You’ll realize what 3 aspects of your appearance play the biggest role in getting her attention â€“ and it’s not what you think. â€“ pg. 18
The Do’s and Don’ts of sexual escalation. â€“ pg. 86, 87
Why a woman resists a guy even when she’s really into him, and how to use her resistance as an advantage to your dating success. â€“ pg. 51
I take an entire chapter to explain the mindset of rejection and how to prevent it’s damaging effects on your dating life. â€“ Chapter “Ignore Rejection”
What if confidence wasn’t real? In chapter “Score Confidence” I explain some new mindsets about our insecurities and how trying to “build” confidence is a waste of time. I then explain 3 simple steps to help remind you of your own deeply innate self confidence. â€“ pg. 22
Through out this eBook I explain the foundations of dating â€“ “Attraction, Rapport, and Intimacy. I also explain how most men get these simple steps out of order only to automatically find themselves in “the friend’s zone.”
Women really do want to date a “nice guy” but they’re not naturally attracted to them. I’ll explain how you can still be that upstanding dude without scaring her away.
Understanding the difference between teasing and playful banter is the difference between making a girl laugh or making her slap you. I’ll explain that fine line and I’ll even give you some great banter lines that will guarantee she’ll take notice of you.
This eBook outlines old mindsets that may be unconsciously holding you back from greater success and I’ll provide you with new mindsets that will naturally improve your success with women.
Learn what a woman’s “bitch shield” is and how to properly ignore it so that you stand out from every other chump. â€“ pg. 20
I teach you the power of this truth: her resistance isn’t her rejection. â€“ pg. 54
The differences between a direct approach and an indirect approach and the proper way to use each one when first meeting a beautiful woman. â€“ pg. 60
Discover why women simply don’t value a guy they can get easily, and how to become the playful guy women love to chase.â€“ pg. 28
What stops most men from dating beautiful women? And it’s got nothing to do with a lack of fame, fortune, or genetics. â€“ pg. 72
I explain the difference between being good looking and looking good. â€“ pg. 18
6 simple things you could say to subtly communicate your interest that invites her to become curious about you instead of bored with you. â€“ pg. 76
How to easily and comfortably generate intimacy with her without embarrassing yourself and without making her feel you’re going too fast. â€“ pg. 80
8 ways you may unknowingly be giving away your power to her and why it will kill her attraction for you. â€“ pg. 32
How a woman tests you and how to easily pass her tests.â€“ pg. 57
You might be surprised at the way family and friends can actually hinder your dating life, and what you can do about it. â€“ pg. 37
How the fear of approaching a woman can be used to actually make her more attracted to you. â€“ pg. 40
How to tell if she’s really into you or not. â€“ pg. 44
Questions you SHOULD be asking her that will naturally make her more curious about you. â€“ pg. 30
5 ways that rapport helps your dating success, and how to naturally build it. â€“ pg. 44-47
8 quick tips for telling a powerful story, which can create a great connection with a woman. â€“ pg. 48
What most women fear and how to always project a fun and safe emotional environment while never seeming boring or dull.â€“ pg. 50
How to tell a story that will convey your value without bragging. â€“ pg. 48
3 simple ways to remove a woman’s fears and resistance to your escalation. â€“ pg. 51
A powerful way to instantly build her attraction and rapport that will make you seem irresistible and fun, which most men absolutely neglect! â€“ pg. 53
How this one behavior will erode her attraction for you and can destroy your chance of a happy long-term relationship. â€“ pg. 54
The 5 things a woman instantly assesses about you when she first see’s you, and how to make the most of your first impression. â€“ pg. 18
6 steps to help prevent yourself from being jealous. â€“ pg. 54-55
5 questions you should ask yourself to help you from unknowingly making the same dating mistakes over and over again.â€“ pg. 38
14 non-verbal ways she might indicator her interest in you, as well as 19 others you shouldn’t miss. â€“ pg. 62
15 easy ways that you can display your leadership qualities and why it matters. â€“ pg. 33
Learn the importance of boundaries (hers and yours) so that you can safely escalate your physical touch from the very first date. â€“ pg. 24-27
I explain the importance of banter with a woman as well as many fun examples that will make her crazy for you. â€“ pg. 60-66
What is congruence and why does it matter? â€“ pg. 66
What it means to be an attractive man and how to lead a life style that naturally brings you success. â€“ pg. 70, 71
11 behaviors you MUST stop doing that makes women want to avoid you..â€“ pg. 41
How to tell when she’s ready to be seduced, and what most men do wrong when they first try to escalate the physical relationship with her. â€“ pg. 41
I explain how you might be jumping through her hoops without even realizing it, and why doing this will only make her less interested in you. â€“ pg. 28
This is something you might be doing that will destroy your chances of creating real intimacy with any women you date. â€“ pg. 81
5 things you should NEVER do when in bed with a woman! â€“ pg. 82
Chapter “Score Sexual Intimacy” defines “sex,” and explains her sexual drives.
Just below you will see three places you can buy this book: Amazon – Barnes & Noble – iTunes (Apple)
From there you’ll be able to instantly download your own copy to begin reading all of my very best tips and techniques for meeting and dating beautiful women. You don’t even need to read this eBook from cover to cover, simply pick and choose the sections that stand out most to you.
Please email me personally if you have any questions… seriously! email@example.com
I wish you new and continued success with women,
~ Robert Belland