So I want a boyfriend.
Not super bad but it’d be nice that’s for sure. Just to have someone to cuddle with, kiss, talk to, yea.
The guy I like though I don’t think he likes me and I don’t really have any other crushes. And yea, I just can’t seem to find a great guy.
I’m 18. I just want someone now, I know I’ll marry a guy later, lada lad a lad a…
So should I go out with creeps? Or just wait for my time to come?
1) Being lonely has nothing to do with not having a boyfriend, and everything to do with wanting to connect with other humans. This is the BEST time to reconnect with friends or family. Or to grow your social network.
2) Dating should be about crossing a bridge to a fantastic man who’s got his shit together… where you’re both happy. But I see too many girls thinking that a boyfriend is the bridge to being happy. And trust me… no man want’s to be your bridge.
So instead of dating to FEEL better, perhaps you should FEEL better before dating. Otherwise you’re going to dance into your next relationship as a needy, insecure, lonely girl… and that’ll either push a great guy away OR it’ll make you end up with a guy who’s also insecure and happy to abuse your weaknesses.
Basically you should take this time, while single, to evaluate what ever parts of your life are contributing to your unhappiness so that you can “find yourself.”
Because I promise you that hooking up with some random dude is NOT going to “fix” things.
Get happy and men will show up at your door naturally. ðŸ™‚
But that’s only my opinion…
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