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There’s a lot of information when it comes to meeting women. However, when you’re out there talking to them, you’re probably not going to remember anything. That’s what happens to everyone and that’s when beginners fail miserably.
You can’t learn every pick-up line in the book by heart. Even if you could, that would be creepy.
Instead, I want you to focus on the essential. The mindset, as I like to call it. And to do that, you just need to remember a few WORDS.
Words are anchors. The moment you say them (even if it’s only inside your head), you’ll generate a series of feelings that will tell your brain exactly what to say. Other people will perceive this behavior as being spontaneous. But we’ll know exactly what’s going on.
So, what are the magic words you need to remember? This is where it gets interesting. It’s different for everyone. So what I’m gonna do is give you a few of the words that are most common and I’ll let you figure out your own words based on them.
Ready? Let’s do this.
First word: confidence.
Man, there’s no other word that can get me more pumped up than this one. Once I hear it inside my head, I know exactly why I’m there and what I’m supposed to do.
Confidence should be at the core of your mindset. Everything from your job or business to travelling to… basically doing anything… should be done with confidence.
When you’re being confident, you’re less likely to freak out and more likely to think… less likely to be negative and more likely to be super-optimistic… and more likely to know what you need to do in the present moment, rather than just daydream about the future.
Last but not least, even if she knows you’re playing her, keep it up. If she tells you you’re a player, show her confidently that you don’t care. It’s who you are. Her submissive behavior will help her get past that.
Second word: goodwill.
Ever saw those gangster movies? Even the bad guys have good intentions, at least what’s what they say. That’s probably what makes them so attractive to women anyway.
If there’s a sure fire way to screw up a conversation with a girl then that’s showing her you have bad intentions. No one likes to talk to someone whom they suspect they’re trying to use them.
Now, this doesn’t mean you need to turn yourself into a wuss. Instead, be the kind of guy who’s always trying to help people move forward, get the best in every situation and reach for the stars.
If a girl talks about how she hats her job or how she can’t find work, tell he things are going to get better. Tell her you’ve been there yourself.
If she’s telling you she doesn’t trust guys as they’re all in it just for sex, try to see things from her perspective. This doesn’t mean you have to turn into her girlfriend, but rather to avoid a gender conflict in which you advocate the opposite of what she’s saying. Trying to fight emotions with logic is suicide.
Third word: time.
You might think that girls need to take things slow. Well, they say they do but when they meet a guy who values bot his and their time, they just let him take the lead and, provided he doesn’t rush them into bed, they let him move pretty darn fast.
A lot of guys spend too much time hoping they’ll get pity sex when, in reality, they turn into their girlfriends.
The best way to move things forward? Just tell them. Tell them you have a busy schedule and try to get them to agree to your terms. Keep in mind their schedule as well, remember word #2. But don’t spend 6 hours with a girl just hoping she’ll invite you over or something.
When you feel you need to make a move, make a move. It’s not an issue of time, it’s an issue of her being ready and giving you the right indicators of interest. And if you do your part and just be the naturally attractive guy she craves, she’ll be ready.
That’s about it. But hey, I know different words may ring your bell. Let me know what hose are in a comment below.
The Lifestyle God