Today’s Guest Guru Post is by David Wygant, a legendary Dating Coach with his own fantastic website www.DavidWygant.com. Go check it out!
Your penis does the least amount of thinking. I was on the phone with a client of mine, and we were talking about how many guys are totally about validation. When they walk over to a woman, all they are thinking about is whether she will like them.
In reality, what is going on in that situation is that your penis is talking to you. It is saying, ďHey, Mr. Big Head up there. Yeah, you between the shoulders. Mr. Penis here. Listen, man, I think this girl is really hot and really want to get into her. So try not to f^*k it up this time. Please donít say the wrong thing, because I really want to hit that vagina tonight. Please donít f^*k it up and say that stupid thing you said last time you approached a woman. Play it safe this time.Ē
This is what your penis is doing. Your penis is controlling your head. If it wasnít, then your head would be thinking ďIím a cool guy. Man, Iím awesome. Iím great. There is a pretty girl over there, but who cares? There are tons of pretty girls in the world. Iím just looking for the one I can really connect with who really gets me. Let me go over and talk to her and see what sheís all about. Letís see if I even like her at all. Iíll ask her out for a cup of coffee and get to know her a little bit.Ē
That is what the rational mind would be saying. The problem, however, is that we are so driven by whatís inside our pants. We are so driven by Mr. Penis. Since Mr. Penis doesnít understand anything rational, he gives his power away every single time.
So the next time you see a good-looking woman, stop looking for validation. Stop listening to Mr. Penis. When you do that, you will realize that you are an amazing person.
This is exactly what I did so that my penis never controlled how successful my approaches were. CLICK HERE to listen to me go through it step-by-step.
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