Q: Guys… do you always want the girl to make the first move?
I want to know why guys don’t make the moves anymore?
A: We’re living in a time of feminized boys – men who have no proper tribal leadership from their absent fathers, and so are left feeling helpless, nervous, and lacking masculine power.
It’s unfortunate and sad really.
If you’re a masculine woman (I don’t mean a manly woman) then you’ll feel very comfortable leading a man, taking him by the hand, and getting what you want.
But from my experience most women prefer being very feminine, while I prefer being very masculine.
There are still plenty of men out there who are willing to step up and be MEN, but you’ll just have to look harder.
To all the boys out there who don’t know how to find their masculine energy, read anything written by David Deida ( link )
Q: What do women find most attractive in a guy, what catches her eye or what would she like her guy to be doing?
A: Getting the girl isn’t about what you’re doing, or what you’re saying – it’s about who you’re BEING.
Be fun, be honest, be sincere, have your own opinion (especially if she disagrees with it) and you’ll discover women will suddenly start noticing you.
If you want to get a woman hooked on you then you must learn to make her “feel” things – if you’re boring, bland, or overly agreeable, you’ll be easily forgotten as a friend. But if you invoke an emotional reaction within her, she’ll be thinking about you all night (even if she’s mad at you.)
Make her laugh and she’ll FEEL.
Make her mad and she’ll FEEL.
It’s really all the same.
Once she’s mad or glad, then turn around and suddenly be sincere, sweet and insightful.
Flirting is all about teasing and tension – the art of making her FEEL you.
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